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AMAZING NIGERIAN TRADITIONAL WEDDING CAKES!

Over the years, bakers in Africa rely on their international counterparts for ideas on latest cake designs, all that are things of the past now as cake makers in this part of the world are now looking inward to connect to their creative and artistic mind. Cakes, these days has gone beyond the traditional circular or rectangular shaped styles, its a whole lot of art and designs. Cakes now speaks volumes about the theme of ceremonies like weddings and even says a lot about the personalities of the couples or celebrants. In fact traditional wedding cakes in Nigeria has gone to another level that showcasing these beautiful pieces to the world wont be a bad idea. Most engagements are not completed without the marvel of the traditional cake to wow the guests… cakes so beautiful that cutting becomes a pain…lol…. Check out these few random samples of traditional wedding cakes in Nigeria, you can be inspired , you know.

 

THE WACKIEST OR THE PRETTIEST – PRE-WEDDING PHOTOSHOOT

Every lady dreams of a beautiful fairy tale like wedding ceremony. Some spends hours on daily basis planning themes and colors of their dream weddings. The interest in beautiful weddings for the female folks is not a sign of desperation as some men misinterpreted, its just a confirmation of the soft, flowery and beautiful nature of women.

Pre-wedding photo-shoot, though has been for ages, is becoming more popular now with couples being more creative and expressive. Whether you have been planning it for years or you just stumbled upon a breathtaking pre -wedding photos you like on the internet, keeping it simple and real is the rule of the game. You should be able to see your photos in the nearest future and feel satisfied.

Your pre-wedding photos could Depicts:

  1. the journey of your relationship
  2. the expected beautiful ending of your love story
  3. The expression of how you feel about each other
  4. your thought about life
  5. the title of your relationship/marriage, like giving it a movie tittle
  6. your personality and thought about life

The list can go on and on, but the conclusion is , you should have something in mind before your pre-wedding shoot. Something that look abstract to others but have deep meaning to the two of you.

From the wackiest, to the funniest, the beautiful, the traditional, the simple, the good and the ugly……. check out these samples of pre-wedding photo-shoot across the world, maybe, just maybe you might be inspired.

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101WAYS TO EXPRESS LOVE TO YOUR PARTNER

101WAYS TO EXPRESS LOVE TO YOUR PARTNER

Its possible to get stranded sometimes when it comes to what to do to show how much you care. Probably because you don’t know what your partner really want, or you just cant say if you are doing it the right way. It is the desire of every human to feel loved and appreciated, and when you show love the right way, it has a way of making your partner glow.
Follow these 100 tips on what you can do to show love to your partner:

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1. Hug them.

2. Write a love note.

3. Call them at work just to say “Hi.”

4. Give them a foot massage.

5. Tell them a joke.

6. Caress them with slow gentle strokes.

7. Go for a walk with them.

8. Send them a “happy gram.”

9. Admit your mistakes.

10. Say: “I love you.”

11. Indulge a whim.

12. Listen to them talk about an interest of theirs.

13. Be trustworthy.

14. Instead of complaining, tell them what you would prefer.

15. Look at them when you’re in a discussion.

16. Send flowers.

17. Compliment something they did.

18. Offer to help.

19. Ask them to show you how to do something.

20. Call when you are going to be late.

21. Take them out to dinner.

22. Write them a poem about how special they are.

23. Cut out a cartoon they’ll enjoy.

24. Ask them what they’d like sexually.

25. Go shopping together.

26. Take an afternoon drive.

27. Cuddle.

28. Put your arm around them in front of others.

29. Take them out on a surprise date.

30. Do something they want to do.

31. Listen.

32. Plan a candle light dinner.

33. Look at old photos together.

34. Serve them breakfast in bed.

35. Hold hands.

36. Share sexual fantasies.

37. Do a work project together.

38. Rub their back.

39. Take a shower together.

40. Carry their photo in your wallet.

41. Go away together for a weekend holiday.

42. Kiss them.

43. Smile more when you look at them.

44. Go for a bicycle ride together.

45. Surprise them with “special” attire.

46. Plan a picnic lunch.

47. Read something together about how to have a better relationship.

48. Repeat what they say before answering.

49. Say “Good morning” first.

50. Ask if they have a few minutes first before interrupting.

51. Send them a card.

52. Surprise them with a gift when it’s a non-holiday.

53. Cook them a favorite meal.

54. Try a new restaurant.

55. Ask them how they feel.

56. Let them know when you are proud of them.

57. Ask for their opinion.

58. Turn on some romantic music.

59. Dedicate a song to them.

60. Send them a balloon bouquet.

61. Watch a sunset together.

62. Play a game together.

63. Have them teach you something they know.

64. Go to a movie they select.

65. Ask them for a hug.

66. Wear some new cologne.

67. Take them to Bali.

68. Discuss future plans with them.

69. Ask if you can help when they look sad.

70. Ask them about their dreams.

71. Meet them for lunch.

72. Enlarge a scenic photo of a place you’ve shared.

73. Give them a gift certificate for their favorite store.

74. Tell them what you like about them.

75. Buy them a new perfume.

76. Take them to a scenic spot.

77. Send them a gourmet gift basket.

78. Send them a joke card.

79. Let them know when you’ve thought of them during the day.

80. Compliment them to their friends.

81. Bring them a thirst quenching drink.

82. Tell them when they look attractive.

83. Send them a post card.

84. Invite them to a secret rendezvous.

85. Give them a massage.

86. Take a lesson with them.

87. Look at photos together of when you met.

88. Plan a vacation with them.

89. Listen openly to their opposing opinion.

90. Buy them a new piece of jewelry.

91. Watch a TV show they like with them

92. Write them a letter.

93. Listen to music with them, such as an old favorite.

94. Whisper sweet nothings in their ear.

95. Tell them what you like that they do.

96. Give a head massage.

97.Invite them to a concert.

98. Go dancing together e.g salsa class

99. Go sporting together

100. Go to movies together

101. Stroke their palms

HOW TO TELL SHE LIKES YOU

HOW TO TELL SHE LIKES YOU

You have been making moves to get acquainted with her, you could have been chatting for weeks online and have now decided to meet on a date. She could be an old friend or you are probably meeting for the first sign and you want to be sure you are not pushing your luck too hard. Here are some few psychological green light to look out for to confirm if you can take things a step further.

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1. She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.

2. Her skin tone becomes red or a bit pale while being around you.

3. She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.

4. She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she’s thinking about you and her relating in some way…

5. She Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.

6. She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.

7. She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.

8. Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth…

9. She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.

10. She puts her fingernail between her teeth.

11. She laughs in unison with you.

12. She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.

13. She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.

14. Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.

15. While talking to you, she rest an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.

16. In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.

17. While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.

18. Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.

19. She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.

20. Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.

21. She rubs her wrists up and down

22. She laughs at your boring stupid joke

23. She always stare back whenever you glance at her

24. She seems to be always there when you need help

25. she wants to see you again or be in your presence regularly

26. she avoids mentioning her boyfriend but want to know if you have a girlfriend

27. she discusses you with her friends

 

THE DOS AND DON’T OF A FIRST DATE

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Blood gushing, heart beating, voice shaking and a lot going through your mind. “How do I get it right and keep him/ her? I need to impress my date to take things to the next level”……. Your mood is understandable, these tips will help you to calm down your nerves and do things the right way.

1. Don’t try too hard to impress: I understand you could be agitated, tensed and will want to do everything to look your best to give a lasting impression on your first date, but have it at the back of your mind that simplicity carries the day when it come to first date. The simpler the better! A loud make up is a no no, keep it simple and clean, ponytail or a long straight falling hair is a turn on. For the guys , make sure you keep it clean and simple. A pair of clean Jean with a nice fitted(not too fitted)T-shirt is a good one. Whenever it come to your first date, anything with the word ” too” is going to spoil things.

2. There’s no alternative to smelling good: believing that you have understood that “too” is a no no, smelling good is a turn on. Ladies are easily attracted to a man that smells good and it makes a woman sexier for to men. Don’t compromise that, get a very good and attracting perfume/cologne, you will be surprised that he/ she will keep smelling you after days of your meeting.

3. Add a little bit of sexiness: a little cleavage is not a bad idea, don’t forget the word little, dress up in a way that attention is drawn to your “selling point”. Men are moved by what they see, this is a useful fact anytime any day. Stylishly Drawing attention to your neatly manicured nails and broad shoulder is a plus for the men.

4. Don’t talk about your ex or ask about his/her: I mean, who does that on a first date. The date is about you two and not a looser somewhere else, frequent talk about your ex is a sign of insecurity, especially when you say bad things about them. Don’t do it, avoid it completely or it will ruin your date. If he/she asked about him/ her, casually talk about what happened in a pleasant manner and change the topic.

5. Don’t over- order: when you are to choose your menu, keep it clean and simple. Don’t order for a food you are not familiar with to avoid disgrace and of course don’t under for what you won’t eat , it’s a sign of wastage. Do I have to mention that you should order decently, not shawarma, fried rice, chicken and chips, native soup and pounded yam , all at the same time, if you do, I bet that could be your last supper in that relationship.

6. Be honest and genuine: be yourself, don’t pretend to be whom you are not, if your date raised a topic you are not familiar with, rather than committing blunders, show your readiness to learn, he/she will be impressed.

7. Don’t ask/give in to sex: sex will not keep a man and pregnancy will not make him stay. Forget those telling you that sex on a first date will keep you in a man’s heart, it’s not possible. If you like tumble like Ronaldo on the bed or jump up and down like Serena Williams, no man will keep you just because he got into your honey pot on the first date. Men love to chase and conquer, don’t deny him the privilege of doing that.

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