Welcome to Intimate Matchmaking
Bringing your Marital Dreams to Life. Welcome to Intimate Match, a one of its kind matchmaking service designed for those willing to find and be found.
Who We Are
Connecting People, Changing Lives, Building a Community
Founded in 2010 by Tolulope Oko-Igiare, We are setting the pace by creating a result oriented platform, carefully designed with Integrity and total dedication strictly for those looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage, all over the world. This platform is not limited by age, race, color, religion, location or localization. Love is all that matters!!
Our Story
When i saw the bond between the two families, my mind flashed back to how they met.
I have been practicing as a relationship and marriage counselor for three years before i met Rose, the thought of being a matchmaker never crossed my mind. One Tuesday afternoon, She walked into my office with her mouth, being the usual sanguine she is, Aunty Tolu, your office is chilling o, what do you have for your girl today, she said in her usual bubbling way. There’s never a dull moment with Rose.
Rose came to my office three months earlier for relationship counseling, she’s beautiful, Godly, brilliant, intelligent, hardworking and friendly. She came to find out why she was single against her wish at 31, considering all the beautiful attributes she has (if you are in Rose’s shoe currently, seeking counseling won’t be a bad idea.). After psychoanalysis, it wasn’t long for me to find out why Rose was single against her wish, she broke down into tears and said, ‘i wish i have met you like seven years ago’.
We were able to work on some issues she has and Rose became a regular caller in my office, sometimes she will pay for a session just to pour her heart, and at other times, she will stop by as a sister, Rose put me in a tight corner of ‘boundary crossing’ in counseling practice, because i have to perform a ‘dual role’ of a counselor and a sister to her, but, sincerely i love having her around. One fateful afternoon, she stopped by a usual……..
Rose: ehn ehn, aunty Tolu, who was that fine guy i saw working out of your office just now, that guy looks cool and smells so nice as well.
Me: Oh, you saw him, he’s a client
Rose: A client, what could be bothering such a cool guy
Me: People don’t see counselors only when they are bothered, sometimes they just want to talk
Rose: So what does he came to talk about
Me: did you just asked me that Rose? (looking at her with the corner of my eyes)
Rose: Okay, okay, confidentiality……. I know you will never say a word….. (she sighed)
Rose: Aunty Tolu, but i think i like that guy o, is she married? (a long silence)
(I then considered why the guy in question came for counseling…)
Me: Come to think of it, i think you guys will be good together o.
The rest is history…… Its 6 years now and we have been having weddings non stop. The desire to see people happy, passion for what i do and Roses’s and Raymond’s union made me to start matchmaking services. The feelings that i get when i see couples i matched getting married cannot be explained, the overwhelming emotions, tears of joy and beautiful adrenalin are always part of me whenever i go for such occasions. Its a pity our society hasn’t developed to a level where i can be posting pictures of couples i matched, as people still have certain ignorant reservations about matchmaking, but the fact remains that bridging gaps for people who want to settle down, for me, its a calling.
Are you still in the school of thought that says matchmaking means you’re helping God? As a matter of fact, matchmaking started in the bible. Genesis chapter 24 describes the first matchmaking mentioned in the Bible. Abraham chose his loyal and trustworthy servant Eliezer for the task of choosing a wife for his beloved son, Isaac. There are so many reasons why people talk to matchmakers, busy schedule, male/female dominated work environment, strict upbringing, better choice, etc. Talking to a matchmaker doesn’t mean you are cheap or timid, its just another avenue to meet someone, just as you do in your place of worship, supermarkets, offices, buses etc.
As a matter of fact, in African culture, no one get married without being introduced by family members or the parents. Matchmaking is Biblical, Cultural and helpful, in fact people are currently meeting online than in real life now.
Intimate Match started out of passion to help those who are single against their wish, we just want to bridge the gap and offer result oriented professional services that people will be willing to trust. Intimate Match is not restricted by age, color, religion, location or localisation.
So, are you single and searching? motivated by Rose’s and Raymond’s story, single against your wish and want to settle down on time? Join the moving train, register with the most reliable, genuine and dependable matchmaker in Nigeria. Intimate Match is the only Matchmaking company in Nigeria with a face behind the scene, We don’t give false hope, but walk with you till the wedding bell rings!
– Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire (Hons.) -CEO
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36K
Satisfied clients around the Globally
11k
Successful Marriages & relationships
Our Process
Steps to Getting your dream Partner
1. Create An Account
Sign up and fill out a detailed profile, sharing your interests, preferences, and what you're looking for in a partner.
2. Subscribe to a Membership Plan
Choose a plan that suits your needs, unlocking features like advanced search filters, profile verification, and messaging.
Search Based on Your Criteria
Use the website's search filters to find matches that fit your ideal partner profile, narrowing down by attributes like age, location, hobbies, and values.
The Goal
Our Mission
Connecting hearts and fostering meaningful relationships through personalized matchmaking, empowering individuals to find their perfect match and build lasting connections.
The Outlook
Our Vission
To become the premier intimate matchmaking platform, renowned for its effectiveness, discretion, and commitment to helping people find true love and companionship.
About our founder
Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire
Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire is the visionary founder of Intimate Matchmaking, a pioneering platform dedicated to connecting individuals seeking meaningful relationships. With a deep passion for fostering love and happiness, Dr. Oko-Igaire has transformed the art of matchmaking into a professional and heartfelt service.
As a renowned Clinical Couples Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist, Dr. Oko-Igaire brings years of expertise in relationship counseling, human sexuality, and mental health to her matchmaking practice. Her unique approach combines psychological insights with a genuine understanding of human connection, ensuring that every match is thoughtfully curated.
Dr. Oko-Igaire’s journey into matchmaking began with her desire to see people thrive in fulfilling relationships. Her dedication to bridging gaps and creating lasting unions has made Intimate Matchmaking a trusted name in the industry. Through her work, she has helped countless individuals find their perfect partners and celebrate the joy of love.
Beyond matchmaking, Dr. Oko-Igaire is a trailblazer in mental health advocacy and counseling in Africa. She is the founder of the Institute of Counselling in Nigeria and serves as the President of the Association for Counseling & Psychotherapy of Nigeria. Her contributions have elevated professional counseling standards and broken taboos surrounding discussions on mental and sexual health.
Dr. Oko-Igaire’s commitment to excellence and her passion for helping others shine through in every aspect of Intimate Matchmaking. Whether you’re seeking companionship, love, or a lifelong partner, Intimate Matchmaking is here to guide you on your journey.
Intimate Gatherings
Exclusive Matchmaking Events
Our platform hosts exclusive events and activities designed to bring our members together in a relaxed and intimate setting. From casual cocktail mixers to sophisticated dinner parties, our events provide the perfect opportunity to meet potential matches in person. With a focus on fostering genuine connections, our curated experiences allow members to build meaningful relationships in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or simply a chance to expand your social circle, our events are tailored to help you connect with like-minded individuals.