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HOW TO STOP CHEATING

Are you cheating on your partner and want to stop it? Read on to find how you can stop cheating and be loyal

 

Cheating used to be a man thing, but these days, more and more women are getting involved in this act. Eve though there are factors that can trigger cheating, no reason or excuse is good for cheating, and no one should accept responsibility for a cheating spouse, he/she cheated because he/she wanted to . The fact that cheating is becoming popular doesn’t make it right.

Maybe you are married or in a love relationship and everything is working just fine. One fine day you meet an old crush, friend or a lover and are overwhelmed with nostalgia. You begin by sending text messages, making phone calls and exchanging emails in the name of friendship and enjoy it too. It brings a fresh feeling to your life that is run out of romance. Before you realize you fall into another relationship that can turn your world upside down. To avoid such heart breaking situations and stop cheating on your partner, read on and collect yourself.

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How does cheating begin? You have met someone new and the chemistry between you two sends out sparks. You love spending time with this person and would give up almost anything for another meeting or date. You start neglecting your present partner, do not have time for them and suddenly start losing interest. The friendship with the significant other is blossoming in to a full blown affair. In your heart you know it is wrong but do not accept it. You start finding faults with your present relationship to justify your affair. You get into an extra marital affair and soon you are cheating on your partner. Controlling your feelings seems impossible. Although you may feel guilty you continue your affair.

Why is it difficult to give up cheating? It is hard to give up cheating because it is like an addiction. You know there is something that is bad but you like it. It is fulfilling some need. For example, if you seek intellectual stimulation and your partner is not providing that, you may find yourself getting attracted to somebody who is brainy and fulfills your mental needs. Every little text message, every call and every meeting becomes special, even if it is not going anywhere in the future. Your needs, emotional or physical, are being met by somebody else and you will find it difficult to give it up since you find it difficult to let go off all the stimulation and need fulfillment. You cannot suddenly deal with a vacuum within you. That is why you may find it very difficult to stop cheating.

How to stop cheating and stay faithful Difficult as it may feel and be, it is not an impossible task. Even after one quits smoking, he goes through painful feelings but certainly survives. You will live too, that too a good life. Stopping yourself from cheating can mean saving lot of trouble and instability. You have to stop something that is wrong. Here are a few ways that can help you stop cheating and stay faithful to your partner.

  • Avoid constant messaging and phone calls
  • Remember you have a partner who loves you
  • Avoid thinking what it could be and what you do not have
  • Control your urge to meet up for just one last time, even if it is to end
  • Call up your ‘other’ or email that you cannot be in the relationship
  • Remember it is not over until it is over
  • Talk to your husband or wife about what you expect from your relationship
  • Avoid waiting for the right moment to stop cheating. Just do it
  • Imagine what will be the consequences if you are found out
  • Concentrate towards making your present relationship better
  • Meet long lost friends or new ones along with your girlfriend or boyfriend
  • Count your blessings and you will see that life has treated you well
  • Avoid criticizing and comparing your partner
  • Avoid comparing your situation with the movies. You are for real
  • Show respect towards your partner’s trust and emotions
  • Spend more time with your partner. Do special things
  • Avoid being negative about your relationship or married life
  • Share with your partner if you are not happy about something. It works
  • Consult a therapist or relationship expert if everything else fails

In the journey of life you will meet many people, far richer and more beautiful or handsome than your partner. Every time you meet one, you might meet another who is even better. There will always be temptations beckoning you towards themselves. But remember, no one is perfect, not even you. No one person can fulfill all your needs. So stop being judgmental and focus on making your relationship better, and remember you are not an animal who doesn’t have control over your urge or emotions. Avoid looking around for new people; it will only create discontent within your heart. Being loyal is not about not being attracted, but remembering you have a loving partner, every time you get attracted.

THE WACKIEST OR THE PRETTIEST – PRE-WEDDING PHOTOSHOOT

Every lady dreams of a beautiful fairy tale like wedding ceremony. Some spends hours on daily basis planning themes and colors of their dream weddings. The interest in beautiful weddings for the female folks is not a sign of desperation as some men misinterpreted, its just a confirmation of the soft, flowery and beautiful nature of women.

Pre-wedding photo-shoot, though has been for ages, is becoming more popular now with couples being more creative and expressive. Whether you have been planning it for years or you just stumbled upon a breathtaking pre -wedding photos you like on the internet, keeping it simple and real is the rule of the game. You should be able to see your photos in the nearest future and feel satisfied.

Your pre-wedding photos could Depicts:

  1. the journey of your relationship
  2. the expected beautiful ending of your love story
  3. The expression of how you feel about each other
  4. your thought about life
  5. the title of your relationship/marriage, like giving it a movie tittle
  6. your personality and thought about life

The list can go on and on, but the conclusion is , you should have something in mind before your pre-wedding shoot. Something that look abstract to others but have deep meaning to the two of you.

From the wackiest, to the funniest, the beautiful, the traditional, the simple, the good and the ugly……. check out these samples of pre-wedding photo-shoot across the world, maybe, just maybe you might be inspired.

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PRE-WEDDING PHOTO-SHOOT

As we look forward to weddings on this page, Intimate Matchmaking will be posting pictures from pre-wedding photo shoot all around the world. This is to encourage member of this site to look forward to such a time and to also remind everyone the essence of creating this page in the first place.

We also believe couples who hook up here can get ideas of how their pre-wedding photo shoot could be. Here is the picture of Fashion designer Olakunbi Oyelese and her man, Lanre Tomori.

Intimate Matchmaking is a “strictly for marriage” site. No flings, no unserious dates!

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Beautiful! Man U players surprise physically/neurologi​cally challenged children by joining them for training and photo sessions.

Football has always been a bonding factor for people allover the world. Its as if people forget their cultural, religion or whatever differences when enjoying the game of football. When a club like MAN U takes it a step further to show their humanitarian side, i think its worthy of emulations.

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Manchester United players surprised physically/emotionally disabled children by joining them for training on Wednesday and went through photo sessions with them afterwards.

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The children who are members of Manchester United Foundation’s Ability Counts scheme, for young people with physical or neurological disabilities, were invited to Trafford Training Center for what they thought was a skills session with their coaches.  Only to find out that its going to be an exciting playing session with the big starts in the club.

 

101WAYS TO EXPRESS LOVE TO YOUR PARTNER

101WAYS TO EXPRESS LOVE TO YOUR PARTNER

Its possible to get stranded sometimes when it comes to what to do to show how much you care. Probably because you don’t know what your partner really want, or you just cant say if you are doing it the right way. It is the desire of every human to feel loved and appreciated, and when you show love the right way, it has a way of making your partner glow.
Follow these 100 tips on what you can do to show love to your partner:

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1. Hug them.

2. Write a love note.

3. Call them at work just to say “Hi.”

4. Give them a foot massage.

5. Tell them a joke.

6. Caress them with slow gentle strokes.

7. Go for a walk with them.

8. Send them a “happy gram.”

9. Admit your mistakes.

10. Say: “I love you.”

11. Indulge a whim.

12. Listen to them talk about an interest of theirs.

13. Be trustworthy.

14. Instead of complaining, tell them what you would prefer.

15. Look at them when you’re in a discussion.

16. Send flowers.

17. Compliment something they did.

18. Offer to help.

19. Ask them to show you how to do something.

20. Call when you are going to be late.

21. Take them out to dinner.

22. Write them a poem about how special they are.

23. Cut out a cartoon they’ll enjoy.

24. Ask them what they’d like sexually.

25. Go shopping together.

26. Take an afternoon drive.

27. Cuddle.

28. Put your arm around them in front of others.

29. Take them out on a surprise date.

30. Do something they want to do.

31. Listen.

32. Plan a candle light dinner.

33. Look at old photos together.

34. Serve them breakfast in bed.

35. Hold hands.

36. Share sexual fantasies.

37. Do a work project together.

38. Rub their back.

39. Take a shower together.

40. Carry their photo in your wallet.

41. Go away together for a weekend holiday.

42. Kiss them.

43. Smile more when you look at them.

44. Go for a bicycle ride together.

45. Surprise them with “special” attire.

46. Plan a picnic lunch.

47. Read something together about how to have a better relationship.

48. Repeat what they say before answering.

49. Say “Good morning” first.

50. Ask if they have a few minutes first before interrupting.

51. Send them a card.

52. Surprise them with a gift when it’s a non-holiday.

53. Cook them a favorite meal.

54. Try a new restaurant.

55. Ask them how they feel.

56. Let them know when you are proud of them.

57. Ask for their opinion.

58. Turn on some romantic music.

59. Dedicate a song to them.

60. Send them a balloon bouquet.

61. Watch a sunset together.

62. Play a game together.

63. Have them teach you something they know.

64. Go to a movie they select.

65. Ask them for a hug.

66. Wear some new cologne.

67. Take them to Bali.

68. Discuss future plans with them.

69. Ask if you can help when they look sad.

70. Ask them about their dreams.

71. Meet them for lunch.

72. Enlarge a scenic photo of a place you’ve shared.

73. Give them a gift certificate for their favorite store.

74. Tell them what you like about them.

75. Buy them a new perfume.

76. Take them to a scenic spot.

77. Send them a gourmet gift basket.

78. Send them a joke card.

79. Let them know when you’ve thought of them during the day.

80. Compliment them to their friends.

81. Bring them a thirst quenching drink.

82. Tell them when they look attractive.

83. Send them a post card.

84. Invite them to a secret rendezvous.

85. Give them a massage.

86. Take a lesson with them.

87. Look at photos together of when you met.

88. Plan a vacation with them.

89. Listen openly to their opposing opinion.

90. Buy them a new piece of jewelry.

91. Watch a TV show they like with them

92. Write them a letter.

93. Listen to music with them, such as an old favorite.

94. Whisper sweet nothings in their ear.

95. Tell them what you like that they do.

96. Give a head massage.

97.Invite them to a concert.

98. Go dancing together e.g salsa class

99. Go sporting together

100. Go to movies together

101. Stroke their palms

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